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[26 Dec 2004|02:26am]

h8_2_d8
Hi:

A situation surrounding some xmas gifts occurred today and any input would be greatly appreciated. I have three daughters, 10, 7, 3, and in opening the gifts this morning, each kid received a gift from a person(or people)that my wife knows. She met them this summer and they seem like alright folks.

They have a couple of boys and one of them is in the same class as the 7 year old. He has a cruch on her - I think - or something like that...whatever, they're in second grade. These people are somehow related to the 10 year old's best friend and are also in 4h with my girls. (we live in rural upper idaho)

I work way too much and am often out of town during the week, so I don't really know these people - not that I care or want to - but here's the deal:

The mom or grandma(or both)of the 7 year old boy, who has a crush on my 7 year old girl, gave her panties and a sports bra type thing as a gift. They gave the 10 year old two training bras and she isn't even close to needing them. I think this is some weird backwoods crap and threw the items away in the woodstove. I then instructed the girls that anyone other than their parents or grandma who gives them underwear as a gift is a weirdo and to not accept the items.

Again, as far as I am concerned, this is inappropriate and these folks are either severely stupid or deviants...either way, caution is in order. I fought with the wife over this and she said that i am the weirdo and there is nothing wrong with the gifts. That they are just nice and thoughtful people. I said if that was the case, then they should have bought them barbie dolls or something.

I talked with my sister and mom about this and they agreed that the gifts were highly inappropriate, but the wife contends that it was okay and i caused more harm to the girls by throwing the underwear away and telling them what i did than the other people did in giving the gifts.

I'm pretty sure I am right on this one, but would like some comments on what you think. i certainly didn't mean to cause any grief to my kids, but what else is a dad supposed to do?

Thanks
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[26 Dec 2004|02:26am]

h8_2_d8
Hi:

A situation surrounding some xmas gifts occurred today and any input would be greatly appreciated. I have three daughters, 10, 7, 3, and in opening the gifts this morning, each kid received a gift from a person(or people)that my wife
knows. She met them this summer and they seem like alright folks.

They have a couple of boys and one of them is in the same class as the 7 year old. He has a cruch on her - I think - or something like that...whatever, they're in second grade. These people are somehow related to the 10 year old's best friend and are also in 4h with my girls. (we live in rural upper idaho)

I work way too much and am often out of town during the week, so I don't really know these people - not that I care or want to - but here's the deal:

The mom or grandma(or both)of the 7 year old boy, who has a crush on my 7 year old girl, gave her panties and a sports bra type thing as a gift. They gave the 10 year old two training bras and she isn't even close to needing them. I think this is some weird backwoods crap and threw the items away in the woodstove. I then instructed the girls that anyone other than their parents or grandma who gives them underwear as a gift is a weirdo and to not accept the items.

Again, as far as I am concerned, this is inappropriate and these folks are either severely stupid or deviants...either way, caution is in order. I fought with the wife over this and she said that i am the weirdo and there is nothing wrong with the gifts. That they are just nice and thoughtful people. I said if that was the case, then they should have bought them barbie dolls or something.

I talked with my sister and mom about this and they agreed that the gifts were highly inappropriate, but the wife contends that it was okay and i caused more harm to the girls by throwing the underwear away and telling them what i did than the other people did in giving the gifts.

I'm pretty sure I am right on this one, but would like some comments on what you think. i certainly didn't mean to cause any grief to my kids, but what else is a dad supposed to do?

Thanks
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[16 Oct 2004|10:00pm]

abandonthetruth
[ mood | crushed ]

Hi,
Maybe u can help me with this. u see i was really close to one of my guy friends and ive know him for bout 2 years. He told me he liked me and asked me out. I told him no and some other things after that. Stuff that i didnt tell anyone before. Since then he keeps saying stuff like oh ur so beautiful and things like that. I know some ppl would like that but i find it completely annoying when he says it every 10mins. I told him to stop today and told him again flat out that i didnt like him back and wont ever probably. Hes a good friend but not someone i would date. Well he got pissed and acted like an ass to me after that. i dont know wut to do its really bother me now. I just wish he would just leave it alone.

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i am wondering/.. [27 Sep 2003|11:08pm]

iam_toriana
[ mood | sad ]

Hi Wilz...

i am wondering why didn't i hear anything when i am measuring my mum's blood pressure?...i would like to know where can we hear the pulse???

i am looking forward to your answer...

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[08 Jun 2003|05:50pm]

wilz

*CLICK HERE FOR MORE PICS*
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[07 May 2003|10:47am]

wilz
Something I came up with at work last nite using fonts!~

Just say no to violence eh?
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[09 Apr 2003|10:03pm]

ouverttesyeux
[ mood | Ironic. ]

What time-management strategies do you use?

Personally, I like to wait to the last minute, then cram! Yeah, it's been ba...good to me. :\ So how about it?

By the way, I'm currently procrastinating from my work to post this.

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[09 Apr 2003|12:29pm]

wilz
I feel alone... does anyone really care?


Leave me a comment here...
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[07 Apr 2003|12:39am]

wilz
New logo, I worked on tonite...
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Enough? [18 Mar 2003|12:01am]

zerrissen
When is enough, enough?
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[05 Mar 2003|02:15pm]

wilz
I'll start by asking a question for people to give some thought to

You dated someone you thought you cared about lots, then they ended up screwing around on you. They say they fucked up, and made a mistake. But before they stepped out of the relationship, you had your first intimate experience together. A few weeks after you broke up with them, they say they are sorry, and regret it, and would want more intimate experiences together. Nothing involving dating again tho. What should a person do in this situation especially when your previous experience with them was one of the best you had?

What is one to do?
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[26 Feb 2003|10:38am]

wilz
Welcome to [AskWilz]. Feel free to ask, or comment on anything, but no rude comments.
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